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>Teaching Your Child the Language of >Social Success by Marshall P. Duke, et al (1996).
Thank you, Pat, I will look for it. He is going to take a Social Cognition class this trimester, but I have not seen the curriculum for it yet. Sara
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>and it offers a Gaming Degree. > ?!
A degree in Video Game Development. Sara
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>>Teaching Your Child the Language of >>Social Success by Marshall P. Duke, et al (1996). >Thank you, Pat, I will look for it.
I found it on Amazon for $8! It looks very much like another book I’ve read, called, "Helping the Child Who Doesn’t Fit In." Further research showed that Marshall Duke wrote that one too! I gave that book away because I hated the title, although I made copies of the exercises before I gave it away. It will be nice to have similar exercises with a better title!! Sara
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>>and it offers a Gaming Degree. >> ?! >A degree in Video Game Development.
?! I guess I’m just behind the times! What sort of degree, though – Bachelor of Arts?? Science?? Medicine?? Engineering?? Finance?? Derek Derek
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> I guess I’m just behind the times! What sort of degree, though – > Bachelor of Arts?? Science?? Medicine?? Engineering?? Finance?? >Derek
That is a very good question. I believe it’s a B.A. Sara
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>Subject: Re: Adult with TS Needing Affordable Insurance >From: sesgard…@aol.com (Sesgardner) >Date: 8/26/03 10:28 AM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <20030826132820.20931.00000…@mb-m13.aol.com> >>How do you decide what *his* choice of school might be, so you can make >sure >>he takes the right classes? >Well, he is very clear (for right now, anyway) that he wants to go to UCI. >It’s >right across the street from our house, and it offers a Gaming Degree.
A Gaming Degree is certainly a fascinating degree to get if he shares my and my son’s interest, if by gaming degree you mean one about the Gaming industry, meaning gambling industry, or even gaming as in programming nintendo and play station 2 games! My son’s a regular Conventioneer at all the big Gaming Industry conventions for video games, and what not. If you its gaming as in gambling, where are you that he has been introduced to gaming, Palm Springs? Would you mind telling em the name of the college? I am fascinated at the idea there is such a thing as a "gaming degree" in vegas, everyone who works in any establing with any kind of gambling, must obtain a "Gaming License" (and sheriff’s card) But, I never heard anyone speak of getting a gaming degree. I would like to know more about it. >It’s very tough to get into, however. He’s got a lot going for him, including >the fact that he’ll be attending one of the top-rated high schools in the >country. But the competition is stiff, and he is not someone who enjoys >studying prescribed courses. He would make an excellent "self-educated" man, >since he loves to read about any subject that is of interest to him. >We shall see!
I was told that around age 15/16 a light bulb goes off and they know what they want they want to be, and believe it because i decided myself at around that age. . So I tried to ensure he had a proper but general rather than specialized foundation, academcially, for whatever that might turn out to be, rather than close any doors before he reached the age he would *know" >Sara
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Are there any adults with Tourette syndrome here that have been able to acquire affordable health insurance? I’m asking because I am in the following scenario: 1. I just graduated from college 2. I have not been able to get hired since June 2002 3. My mother’s insurance co. from work will not extend coverage unless I’m a full-time student under the age of 25 4. I was turned down for private insurance by Blue Shield and Health Net because of my pre-existing Tourette diagnosis. Plus, COBRA is imposing a large (>$300) monthly premium and Blue Cross PPO is not so hot either 5. I am again covered (for now) under my mother’s insurance policy because I’m back in school as a full-time graduate student 6. In 2005, I expect to graduate with an M.S. degree, and if the economy doesn’t pick up and enable me to land a job, I will be in the same predicament–having no health insurance and paying $550/month for prescription drugs! If you are, or know, a TS adult in California has been able to acquire private health insurance having a modest premium, would you please post your contact info here or at my E-mail address (pauljo…@verizon.net)? Thanks, everyone! P.J. Azusa, California (23 w/ TS)
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P.J. Wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Are there any adults with Tourette syndrome here that have been able to >acquire affordable health insurance? I’m asking because I am in the >following scenario: >1. I just graduated from college >2. I have not been able to get hired since June 2002 >3. My mother’s insurance co. from work will not extend coverage unless >I’m a full-time student under the age of 25 >4. I was turned down for private insurance by Blue Shield and Health Net >because of my pre-existing Tourette diagnosis. Plus, COBRA is imposing a >large (>$300) monthly premium and Blue Cross PPO is not so hot either >5. I am again covered (for now) under my mother’s insurance policy >because I’m back in school as a full-time graduate student >6. In 2005, I expect to graduate with an M.S. degree, and if the economy >doesn’t pick up and enable me to land a job, I will be in the same >predicament–having no health insurance and paying $550/month for >prescription drugs! >If you are, or know, a TS adult in California has been able to acquire >private health insurance having a modest premium, would you please post >your contact info here or at my E-mail address (pauljo…@verizon.net)? >Thanks, everyone! >P.J. >Azusa, California >(23 w/ TS)
Hi P.J. and welcome to ast. I have a son who is 22 who will finish college this upcoming January. Please have your mother check with her work about who is actually covered. I know that my son will be covered as long as I work at my current employer as a disabled child. Most employers who have this insurance don’t "advertise" it. It’s tough out there right now trying to find a job, but stick with it. Pat
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Affordable Insurance >From: pparent…@aol.com >P.J. Wrote: >>Are there any adults with Tourette syndrome here that have been able to >>acquire affordable health insurance? >Hi P.J. and welcome to ast. I have a son who is 22 who will finish college >this upcoming January. Please have your mother check with her work about who >is actually covered. I know that my son will be covered as long as I work at >my current employer as a disabled child. Most employers who have this >insurance don’t "advertise" it. >It’s tough out there right now trying to find a job, but stick with it. >Pat
Hi PJ and Pat. Similar situation here too. My son is 22, going to grad school, and with TS (and diabetes). So I know he falls under IDEA due to either of those 2 . He is still covered like PJ due to the full time college status. But I also think NJ and some other states have the law about preexisting conditions. Will that mean that they can charge higher premiums or that they can’t discriminate? I was just hoping that when he gets a job ( hopeful) the company will have to pay ( as long as that state has the no preexisting laws). Anyway, PJ, good luck in grad school. What are you specializing in? And where are you going (if you don’t mind me asking? Pat, how about your son? Mine will be at NYU for international economics and politics.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Paul-John A. To wrote: > Are there any adults with Tourette syndrome here that have been able to > acquire affordable health insurance? I’m asking because I am in the > following scenario: > 1. I just graduated from college > 2. I have not been able to get hired since June 2002 > 3. My mother’s insurance co. from work will not extend coverage unless > I’m a full-time student under the age of 25 > 4. I was turned down for private insurance by Blue Shield and Health Net > because of my pre-existing Tourette diagnosis. Plus, COBRA is imposing a > large (>$300) monthly premium and Blue Cross PPO is not so hot either > 5. I am again covered (for now) under my mother’s insurance policy > because I’m back in school as a full-time graduate student > 6. In 2005, I expect to graduate with an M.S. degree, and if the economy > doesn’t pick up and enable me to land a job, I will be in the same > predicament–having no health insurance and paying $550/month for > prescription drugs! > If you are, or know, a TS adult in California has been able to acquire > private health insurance having a modest premium, would you please post > your contact info here or at my E-mail address (pauljo…@verizon.net)? > Thanks, everyone! > P.J. > Azusa, California > (23 w/ TS)
I would suggest checking California state law to see if they have a state insurance plan that covers people who cannot get insurance on the open market. Minnesota has a similar plan and the cost is only about $30 – $40 more than the open market. I found out about that through some of my former co-workers. The company paid your insurance costs but you had to get it in the open market. Apparently I was the only one in the company that could get insurance in the open market (and if I was receiving services for a disorder diagnosed as a child, I am sure I would have been denied). It would be something to look into as a possibility. — Louis Bouchard de KC2FNN Rochester MN USA louisjbouch…@charter.net "I do not fear computers. I fear the lack of them." —————————– Issac Asimov
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Jan Wrote: >Pat, how about your son? Mine will >be at NYU for international economics and politics.
Dan is going to Providence College, English major, will graduate in January. He just finished his fourth year as an intern for the state, with the Commission on Human Rights investigating cases. I think he has found a job he really likes to do! Pat
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>From: pparent…@aol.com (PParent112) >Dan is going to Providence College, English major, will graduate in January. >He just finished his fourth year as an intern for the state, with the >Commission on Human Rights investigating cases. I think he has found a job >he >really likes to do!
Sounds great. Jan
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I attend the California State Polytechnic University, in Pomona, CA, where I am working on a Masters Degree in computer science. I’ve decided that I want to specialize, yet not exactly in what area. Ideas I’ve looked into include secure computer networks, computer databases, and Web programming. Thanks for all the input I’ve received so far. I hope more of you continue to write in. P.J.
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>My son is 22, going to grad school, >and with TS (and diabetes). So I know he falls under IDEA due to either of >those 2 .
IDEA ends upon graduation from high school with a regular ed diploma. It has nothing to do with college — college students get 504 plans. [I realize that you've filtered me out, but I posted this so that others won't be erroneously thinking that their students are covered under IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) after graduation from high school with a regular ed diploma. In fact, there's an OCR presentation entitled, "There are No IEPs in College." You might want to see if it could be presented in a school near you.]
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->>My son is 22, going to grad school, >>and with TS (and diabetes). So I know he falls under IDEA due to either of >>those 2 . >IDEA ends upon graduation from high school with a regular ed diploma. It has >nothing to do with college — college students get 504 plans. >[I realize that you've filtered me out, but I posted this so that others >won't >be erroneously thinking that their students are covered under IDEA >(Individuals >with Disabilities Education Act) after graduation from high school with a >regular ed diploma. >In fact, there's an OCR presentation entitled, "There are No IEPs in >College." >You might want to see if it could be presented in a school near you.]
Jan, what kinds of services does your son get at grad school? My son dearly wants to go to UCI, and I’m in the process of figuring out what we need to accomplish before he graduates, and what kinds of things I can expect from a college. Brenda, what is OCR? And what suggestions do you have for me to ensure that my son takes the right courses now to help him get into the school of his choice? We just got his testing results back and he scored in the 98th and 99th percentile across the board! Sara
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>what is OCR? And what suggestions do you have for me to ensure that my >son takes the right courses now to help him get into the school of his >choice? >We just got his testing results back and he scored in the 98th and 99th >percentile across the board!
Office of Civil Rights. There’s an interesting e-mail listserv that has lots of suggestions about getting into students’ selected colleges, including courses to take, extracurriculars (he/she who participates in the most extracurriculars doesn’t win), tests, etc. I’ll dig up the subscription info and send it to you. One thing they stress over and over is the importance of taking challenging courses (AP). And any chance your son has to take high school credit courses in middle school/junior high, he should take (especially with those scores). My 12 y/o son will be taking Algebra 1 for high school credit this year, and also his second credit of high school foreign language. By the time he leaves middle school, he will have 6 or 6-1/2 high school credits, so this will allow him to take higher level courses in high school earlier. When our kids don’t have that extra attraction of being a minority granted special status for college admissions purposes, it’s a different playing field that they have to compete against.
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"Sesgardner" <sesgard…@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20030826101208.21713.00000665@mb-m01.aol.com… >And what suggestions do you have for me to ensure that my > son takes the right courses now to help him get into the school of his choice? > We just got his testing results back and he scored in the 98th and 99th > percentile across the board! > Sara
Here’s a site that addresses some of my concerns along this line. Now that my son is entering junior high a focus on college prep is foremost in my mind. — pwilson: http://www.ed.gov/pubs/GettingReadyCollegeEarly/step2.html
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Subject: Re: Adult with TS Needing Affordable Insurance >From: sesgard…@aol.com (Sesgardner) >Date: 8/26/03 7:12 AM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <20030826101208.21713.00000…@mb-m01.aol.com> >>>My son is 22, going to grad school, >>>and with TS (and diabetes). So I know he falls under IDEA due to either of >>>those 2 . >>IDEA ends upon graduation from high school with a regular ed diploma. It >has >>nothing to do with college — college students get 504 plans. >>[I realize that you've filtered me out, but I posted this so that others >>won't >>be erroneously thinking that their students are covered under IDEA >>(Individuals >>with Disabilities Education Act) after graduation from high school with a >>regular ed diploma. >>In fact, there's an OCR presentation entitled, "There are No IEPs in >>College." >>You might want to see if it could be presented in a school near you.] >Jan, what kinds of services does your son get at grad school? My son dearly >wants to go to UCI, and I’m in the process of figuring out what we need to >accomplish before he graduates, and what kinds of things I can expect from a >college. >Brenda, what is OCR? And what suggestions do you have for me to ensure that >my >son takes the right courses now to help him get into the school of his >choice? >We just got his testing results back and he scored in the 98th and 99th >percentile across the board!
How do you decide what *his* choice of school might be, so you can make sure he takes the right classes? I thought I knew, until he was about to turn 15 and he let me know otherwise. Linda
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> One thing they stress over and over is the importance of taking challenging > courses (AP).
A program they have here is called Running Start. If you qualify, in your Jr and sr year you can take college classes (at the college) and get college credit and high school credit. You have to pay for books but the hs pays for tuition. At the end of your senior year you graduate with hs diploma and AA degree. If that is too intense, you can just take a few college classes to give you a jumpstart on your AA. What an opportunity for students! Jodi
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> Now that >my son is entering junior high a focus on college prep is foremost in my >mind. — pwilson: >http://www.ed.gov/pubs/GettingReadyCollegeEarly/step2.html
Thanks, that’s exactly where we’re at. I’m trying to balance his tremendous academic success with his tremendous social deficits. I’m not sure how he would do with the stress of more difficult courses, so we’re taking it slow this first trimester. Sara
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>How do you decide what *his* choice of school might be, so you can make sure >he takes the right classes?
Well, he is very clear (for right now, anyway) that he wants to go to UCI. It’s right across the street from our house, and it offers a Gaming Degree. It’s very tough to get into, however. He’s got a lot going for him, including the fact that he’ll be attending one of the top-rated high schools in the country. But the competition is stiff, and he is not someone who enjoys studying prescribed courses. He would make an excellent "self-educated" man, since he loves to read about any subject that is of interest to him. We shall see! Sara
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>One thing they stress over and over is the importance of taking challenging >courses (AP). And any chance your son has to take high school credit courses >in middle school/junior high, he should take (especially with those scores).
Thanks, Brenda, I got the lnk. It looks great. We don’t have him signed up for AP courses this trimester, since we’re not sure how the new school experience will work out for him. He gets stressed very easily and cannot handle a ton of homework. Plus, his projects are not "polished," he lacks the fine motor skills for that. Sara
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Subject: Re: Adult with TS Needing Affordable Insurance >From: "Jodi" hellofromj…@charter.net >Date: 8/26/03 9:51 AM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <vkn3smb830u…@corp.supernews.com> >> One thing they stress over and over is the importance of taking >challenging >> courses (AP). >A program they have here is called Running Start. If you qualify, in >your Jr and sr year you can take college classes (at the college) and >get college credit and high school credit. You have to pay for books >but the hs pays for tuition. At the end of your senior year you >graduate with hs diploma and AA degree. If that is too intense, you >can just take a few college classes to give you a jumpstart on your AA. >What an opportunity for students! >Jodi
I agree. My son was gungho in 7th and 8th grades while in AP courses he would recive HS credit for. But had a major case of RSS his freshman and sophomore years. Now, a junior he appears to be gungho once again, and I do believe it’s owing to his being in that AP history course for which he will get college credit. Even if they choose not to remain in ALL the AP’s, …as my son CHOSE to opt out of all AP’s but history after freshman year, his staying with the one has a positive and enhancing effect. (FYI, RSS isn’t a real disorder, i made it up = Reluctant Schoolboy Syndrome) Linda
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>and it offers a Gaming Degree.
?! Derek
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"Sesgardner" <sesgard…@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20030826132405.20931.00000759@mb-m13.aol.com… > > Now that > >my son is entering junior high a focus on college prep is foremost in my > >mind. — pwilson: > >http://www.ed.gov/pubs/GettingReadyCollegeEarly/step2.html > Thanks, that’s exactly where we’re at. I’m trying to balance his tremendous > academic success with his tremendous social deficits. I’m not sure how he would > do with the stress of more difficult courses, so we’re taking it slow this > first trimester. > Sara
Sara, you might want to pick up the book Teaching Your Child the Language of Social Success by Marshall P. Duke, et al (1996). On page 7 it states: Nonverbal language is the mother language of the human relationship." Later on on the same page: "A classic set of studies by Albert Mehrabian showed that in face-to-face interactions, 55 percent of the emotional meaning of a message is expressed through facial, postural, and gestural means, and 38 percent of the emotional meaning is transmitted through tone of voice. Only 7 percent of emotional meaning is actually expressed with words." On page 8: "When we see someone make a mistake in verbal communication, we may make judgements about that person’s intellectual abilities. In contrast, when we see a person commit an error in nonverbal communication, we are more prone to think of that person as socially inept and even unlikable. We might sympathetically look upon a person who makes mistakes in verbal communication as poorly educated. On the other hand, we are likely to regard a person who makes errors in nonverbal communication as strange or weird. Children often apply cruel names to those who — for reasons they cannot ascertain — do not follow nonverbal social rules. While children’s levels of verbal ability undoubtedly have something to do with their social success, it is likely that their social success will be affected even more significantly by their nonverbal language skills." The authors develop specific chapters on the various parts of speech of nonverbal language, including paralanguage, facial expressions, space and touch, gestures and postures, and rhythm and timing. I’ve looked a number of years for a decent book about social skills. Most of those I found weren’t worth a nickel. This one really nailed down what I was looking for. It provides excellent definitions, examples, and easy-to-follow exercises. We found it to be a valuable resource for teaching and improving our son’s nonverbal skills. — pwilson
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